Tonight, I stopped by our new house to check out the progress. As I drove down the cul-de-sac, I observed a woman, child and dog halfway down our driveway. I was a little unnerved, but tried to give them the benefit of the doubt. I thought "maybe they're just taking their dog for a walk and want to incorporate our driveway since it's so long?" However, my cynical lawyer suspicions got the best of me and I decided to play detective for awhile. I drove a little further into another new development behind ours to scope out the situation. I observed them behind our house entering our walk-out basement through an unlocked sliding glass door!!! I was livid, but knew they were our soon-to-be new neighbors and I didn't want to get off on the wrong foot.
I decided to drive around a bit more to collect my thoughts. By the time I returned, they were at the end of our driveway. In the most polite voice I could muster I asked "Can I help you?" The woman paused for a REALLY long time, so I smiled and said "this is going to be OUR house." Then, she proceeded to inform me that she lived down the street and just wanted to "check things out" as a vendor had delivered our banisters today. Again, in the nicest tone possible, I said "that's great." She then told me that "everything looks wonderful" as I rolled up my window and replied "thanks for letting me know."
Once I reached our garage, I immediately tried to get in touch with Jim to vent, but he was still at a golf lesson. I CANNOT believe the audacity of our future neighbors. Why do they think they have the right to prowl around inside someone else's house? I can't figure it out. Jim is equally, if not more, annoyed and thinks they are just plain nosy and there isn't any other motivation. I keep thinking that maybe they're trying to determine how much we spent in upgrades, but, within weeks, our purchase price will be a matter of public record. I cannot comprehend it?!?!?
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| One of the best movies of all time...so true! |
I will admit that this shouldn't come as a surprise. I mean who hasn't seen
American Beauty? If that movie didn't resonate and demonstrate the drawbacks of the suburbs nothing would. In fact, during one of our site meetings, another neighbor told us that a neighbor at the end of the cul-de-sac, who they affectionately termed "The Mayor," would actually walk to other people's lots with a ladder and inspect the second floor of their new home before stairs were even installed! I can only
assume that the woman, child and dog were
related to him.
Although the invasiveness is reprehensible, our other concern is that we have custom cabinets, marble and tile, not to mention the hardwood floors that will be laid soon. Are our absurd neighbors and their pet going to destroy our new hardwood floors before
Buster has a chance to scratch them up we move in? WTF? I feel like I'm living in the Twilight zone...since when did it become acceptable to traipse around someone else's house and land?
Where I grew up, if you trespassed on another person's property, you risked being mistaken for a white-tailed deer, especially this time of year! How would they like it if Jim, Buster and I traipsed around in their backyard?
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| Kitchen |
Anyway, after my encounter I was able to take a few shots of the interior (courtesy of my IPhone). I am SO happy with how it looks!
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| Butler's pantry and wine rack - ahhh! |
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| View of family room from foyer |
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| Master Bathroom |
We are still waiting for the granite in the kitchen and butler's pantry, but you get the idea! The tray ceiling, crown moulding and chair rail in the dining room and living room are complete. I know that
we I will make great use of our butler's pantry and wine rack (one of the best investments by far, although Jim may disagree :-). It will be well-stocked and I cannot wait to host a girl's night! Plus, as our lovely soon-to-be neighbor advised, one of the overlook banisters was completed today. UGGGGHHH...I'm glad I was wearing sunglasses during our encounter because I swear I was shooting daggers at her and the rotten kid!
Has someone ever invaded your privacy? How did you handle the situation?